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Menopause as a sacred passage

01 August

 Amidst navigating these inner transformations and adjusting to a new version of oneself, women often face an added burden: the societal pressure to conform to  outdated ideals of what it means to be a woman.

In cultures obsessed with youth and appearance, aging is rarely seen as something to be honored. Society frequently portrays menopause as a kind of expiration date—an end to a woman’s right to flourish, feel deeply feminine, or living passionately.

But it wasn’t always this way. In many traditional and Indigenous cultures, menopause was not seen as a decline, but rather as a rite of passage into a new, often more empowered phase of life.

In Native American Cultures, Elder women were often seen as wisdom keepers or spiritual guides. After menopause, women were believed to hold greater spiritual power because their life force was no longer tied to fertility, menstrual cycles or childbirth.

The Ancient Celtic Traditions marked menopause as the transition from the Mother to the Crone in the Triple Goddess archetype (Maiden–Mother–Crone). The Crone wasn’t viewed negatively — she represented wisdom, intuition, and the power of the unconscious. In Jungian psychology also, the Crone is the third aspect of the Triple Goddess representing wisdom, intuition, and transformation.

The Crone is free of societal expectations, deeply connected to inner knowing, and becomes a guide or teacher for others. She embraces aging as a deepening rather than a decline.

Post-menopausal women often became healers, storytellers, and leaders in their communities.  

In Some African Tribes, among the Kongo people of Central Africa, post-menopausal women could become ngangas (spiritual healers or shamans).

The Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) viewed menopause as a natural transition and a time to restore and cultivate “yin” energy.

In this tradition menopause was not feared or pathologized, but supported through herbs, qigong, and diet to ease the body into its next phase.

In some Middle Eastern & Mediterranean folk cultures, older women — could gain social freedom, autonomy, and the ability to speak more openly. Menopause was sometimes seen as a liberation from patriarchal control.

Across cultures and throughout mythology, the menopause transition has been honored as a sacred passage into eldership and embodied wisdom. This transition is not the end of something, but the beginning of a deeper, more sovereign self. 

When embraced consciously, menopause becomes an initiation — not into invisibility or decline, but into an integration.

In a culture obsessed with youth, women are often not given permission to age — and certainly not to age with power. But we should  rewrite that story.

Menopause is an opportunity for women to explore their truest essence, beyond their physiology.

For a conscious woman who is ready to explore the deeper layers of the psyche, menopause is an opportunity to discover that the Self transcends biology.

The identity of the woman gets a chance to witness its worth, and to realize that its truest essence is not tied to the physical body, fertility, or youthful appearance. It is a stage in life where we can come closer to the Self—or the soul—that is not bound by any physical or biological limitations.

The Bhagavad Gita, the sacred Hindu scripture, describes the nature of that Self so beautifully:

“But the soul is indestructible; spades cannot cut it down, fire does not burn it, water does not wet it, and the wind never dries it. The soul is beyond the power of all such things.”

It becomes a deeply powerful experience, once we accept the rhythm of life and allow it to show us what it has to offer.

Why AI Cannot Replace Therapy: The Limits of Machines in a Human Process

22 July

In an age where artificial intelligence can compose music, interpret legal documents, and even simulate human conversations, understanding why AI cannot replace therapy is crucial. While therapy often involves listening, problem-solving, and offering support—functions that AI, on the surface, seems capable of replicating—the true essence of therapy goes far beyond these capabilities.

But the truth is: therapy is not just about processing information. It is a deeply human, relational, and intuitive process that AI, no matter how advanced, cannot authentically replicate.

1. Therapy Is a Human Relationship, Not Just a Service

At the heart of therapy lies the therapeutic relationship, a safe, attuned, and nonjudgmental space co-created by two human beings. This relationship is not transactional; it is relational and often mirrors the client’s deeper interpersonal patterns. It is within this container of trust that healing occurs.

AI may be able to analyze speech patterns, detect emotional cues, or offer preprogrammed affirmations, and even solutions, but it cannot form real attachment bonds, nor can it offer the felt experience of being seen and understood by another conscious being.

2. Healing Requires Presence, Not Just Responses

Therapists do more than provide advice. They hold silence when needed, notice subtle shifts in posture, tone, or tears, and respond with emotional depth. They regulate their own nervous systems to co-regulate their clients’, modeling emotional safety and resilience.

AI can mimic presence with words, but it cannot embody presence. It lacks a nervous system, facial expressions, breath, and crucially, a soul. No algorithm can mirror the calming experience of sitting across from someone who is fully present with your pain.

3. Emotions Are Not Data

AI is exceptional at data processing, but emotions are not data points, they are lived experiences. A human therapist can feel a client’s sorrow in their own body. They can tolerate discomfort, sit with ambiguity, and recognize when something unspoken is hanging in the air.

AI can flag keywords that suggest sadness, but it cannot feel the sadness with you. It may recognize a crisis, but it won’t cry with you, laugh with you, or hold space for your silence.

4. The Unconscious Cannot Be Computed

Much of therapy, especially depth psychology, psychodynamic work, and trauma healing deals with the unconscious. Dreams, metaphors, archetypes, body memories, and symbolic language often point to truths that defy logic or clear interpretation.

AI, by nature, is literal and limited to what it has been trained on. It cannot access the symbolic and intuitive realms that a skilled therapist can navigate. Nor can it honor mystery, which is often central to the human psyche’s healing journey.

5. Ethics, Power, and the Risk of Misuse

Entrusting sensitive emotional and psychological matters to machines raises critical ethical concerns. Who owns the data? How is it protected? Can an AI discern when a client is being manipulative, in denial, or in danger? Who is accountable if something goes wrong?

Therapists are bound by ethical codes, confidentiality agreements, and years of training, not just in technique but in moral discernment and human development. AI operates on code and commercial interests.

6. Transformation Requires More Than Optimization

AI excels at optimization. Therapy, on the other hand, is about transformation. It invites people to confront their deepest fears, shed false identities, and reclaim lost parts of themselves. This is not a mechanical process,it is sacred, unpredictable, and often painful.

Healing doesn’t follow a script or protocol. Sometimes, what heals is not what is said, but what is witnessed. And witnessing is something only a human heart can truly offer.

Final Thought: AI as a Tool, Not a Therapist

AI can assist in therapeutic work, it can support therapists with data, suggest tools, or help clients track patterns between sessions. But it is just that: a tool. It cannot, and should not, replace the human soul-to-soul connection that lies at the heart of healing.

Some startups in the mental health space are pouring vast amounts of time, funding, and energy into building AI-powered tools, believing that scalable algorithms can replace human connection. While innovation has its place, these efforts often miss the essence of what therapy truly is. Reducing psychological healing to chatbots or emotion-detecting scripts risks trivializing the depth, nuance, and sacredness of the therapeutic process. Instead of advancing care, such ventures may end up offering superficial engagement that bypasses the real work of healing.

In a world increasingly shaped by machines, perhaps what therapy reminds us most is this: what makes us whole is not how fast we process